New York City girl looking for honest Pakistani gentleman. Real name Sheila

I think that I am a wonderful person with a heart of gold. I would like to meet a Pakistani man with a kind heart who is capable of loving me. I understand that most of the Pakistani men here in America are married and have a family back home in Pakistan, although even on this website most are claiming to be single. I despise lies. I have no problem dating a man here whose wife is back home, but I don't want to be lied to about it because I will eventually find out.