You live and you learn :)

You always hear the usual: "i'm a nice person from a good family and I want a guy thats smart/good looking and educated"...how generic is that?!?!! I'm the type of girl that can never wear white and not spill on it. My friends and family are like my insides, if anyone of them is in pain then it effects me directly. In life, it isn't about what you want in another person. It's what you DON'T want. What you can't handle thats more important. I don't want a guy that is insecure. No "momma's boy" plase. I don't want a guy without guts to stand up for what he believes in.