what's a girl gotta do to get a flirt?

there's not really a way to fill in these things without coming off like a complete tool. PLUS now i've shown myself up as the kind of person who thinks about stuff like that.... Looking For: basically a socially intelligent person who is enthusiastic and excited by life. it sounds so simple doesn't it? someone with liberal views who likes music and books. i'm particularly enthusiatic about day-dreamers/musicians/temperamental types. do not like over-keen men/attention seekers/egomaniacs...